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Jan 31, 2015

Steps to Filtering and Protecting Your Computer

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"Parents must have the courage to filter or monitor Internet access, television, movies, and music." - Elder Quinton Cook Le...
Jan 19, 2015

Wife's Analogy

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A wonderful friend of mine wrote this to help her Church Leader's understand her pain. It is absolutely beautiful and I asked if I coul...

Latter Day Saint: Is Honesty To a Wife Required for Repentance?

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Disclosure Is Honesty Required For Repentance? An LDS Church View Disclosure is a question of ethics. As wives, we deserve and have a ...
Dec 19, 2014

How To Set Boundaries

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What Are Boundaries? Boundaries Boundaries Boundaries. What are they? Though I've always had certain boundaries, I didn't know ...

What are Personal Bill of Rights?

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Personal Bill of Rights  You may have occasionally heard the term "Bill of Rights". Personal Bill of Rights are  statements  ...
Nov 26, 2014

What Are Slip, Lapses and Relapses & What Do They All Have In Common?

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They all include Acting Out in one's addiction, and require a restart in sobriety AND Recovery  dates . Let’s look at some definition...
Nov 10, 2014

To Filter or Not Part 2 : Is Computer Monitoring For Safety or Control?

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Would you be ok with a loved one to shoot up heroin in your home? Would you be ok with a loved storing heroin filled needles within easy rea...
Oct 2, 2014

Latter Day Saint: Helpful Consequences, Repentance and the Process of Becoming Worthy

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Are Consequences and Repentance Required for Worthiness?  LDS Mormon Quotes Why Are Consequences Helpful?  If Alma the you...

Latter Day Saint: Can Someone View Pornography and Still Attend the Temple Worthily??

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Pornography and the Law of Chastity  LDS Mormon Quotes   What is Pornography?   Definition of Pornography : "Pornog...
Aug 25, 2014

What We All Wish Church Leaders Knew About Wives of Porn Addicts:

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What Do Wives Of Sex Addicts Wish Everyone Knew?  1. We are devastated.   2. We did not cause this and we cannot cure it. 3. We may ...
Aug 15, 2014

Warning Signs That Your Partner Might Be A Sex Addict

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Is He Secretly Viewing Pornography? Is He Secretly Having Affairs? Check Out These Warning Signs: 

Warning Signs Of Approaching Relapse

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Do you suspect your spouse may have relapsed or is heading towards a relapse? Here are a few common warning signs: 1. Engaged in the...
Jul 31, 2014

LDS Mormon View On Masturbation

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"Masturbation is sex with self. Sex with self is sex with someone other than your husband or wife to whom you are legally and lawf...
May 7, 2014

Understand Me

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Understand Me My Addiction vs. Betrayal Trauma No amount of words can fully express to anyone the pure hell I went through when the d...
Apr 14, 2014

To Filter or Not??

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My psychologist once helped me out in this one. I am pro filter. But filters really DON'T 100% (more like 50%) work. They never work...
Mar 17, 2014

Is There Relapse in Recovery?

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OH MY GOODNESS the big question!  What does being in Recovery REALLY mean? Can someone be in recovery and continue to slip/relapse ...
Feb 25, 2014

Is Snooping Wrong?

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When does snooping become wrong? Where does the line get drawn between obsessively snooping or just trying to protect ourselves? This ...
Feb 1, 2014

Latter Day Saint: Addiction, Agency, & Freedom

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Do addicts have a choice? Or do they lose all agency and responsibility? Here's my personal thoughts. You've often heard the phra...
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Makemyburdenlight
I am a lived experience advocate for victims of betrayal abuse/intimate partner violence, and a recovering alcohol, drug, and sex addict. I am certified in Response Based Practice, and my passion is deconstructing victim blaming language, empowering victims to recognize their dignity and resistance to abuse, and exposing harmful teachings (especially within the trauma and sex addiction industry.)
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