Alcohol, Drug & Sex Addict & Wife Of Sex Addict

FYI: The CSAT training is FULL OF CODEPENDENCY/victim blaming. Stephanie Carnes runs the CSAT trainings (her father Patrick Carnes made up t...

Pornography Statistics: "94.2 % [men] had viewed pornography in the last six months.  Additionally, 82.4% indicated that they currently...

"Victim mode", "Victim Mentality", "Stop playing a Victim", "It's tempting to be the victim"(Yes...

We already know research shows that most women in prostitution are trafficked, but how many women in pornography are trafficked? Based on th...

What is Rape & Sexual Assault?  Everyone PLEASE read this. You may think you know what rape and sexual assault means, but the reality is...

I can't count the many times I've heard women say "I ignored the red flags", or "I painted the red flags green",...

 Who here wants a new name for codependency? Oh right, no one. "Prodependency" is another victim blaming term, made up by sex addi...

 The term "Trauma Bond" is just as victim blaming as codependency, reactive abuse, stockholm syndrome, learned helplessness, Drama...

 I'm not against everything regarding learned helplessness. Martin Seligman's study is fascinating (disgusting), though I don't ...

The term "Stockholm Syndrome" is ALL CRAP. Hogwash. Nonsense. Absurd. Rubbish. Malarky. Hooey. Doo doo. Lies. Yet there are hundre...

 The Drama Triangle is another victim blaming term when applied to trauma victims.  According to the creator, Dr. Stephen Karpman, the Drama...

"Reactive Abuse" or "Mutual Abuse" isnt a real thing. Someone always has more power and control. The reason victims do t...

I will be doing a series of posts about some victim blaming terms that many people may not be aware of that are harming victims of abuse, li...

 "EVEN IF IT'S ALL COMPLETELY TRUE" Anyone else sick of sex addict men coming up with labels for traumatized women?  Let's...

(Yes. Cat memes make me happy)  S-Anon is victim blaming and codependency based, even if they don't use the word "codependency"...

  A recent poll suggests that 93% of betrayed wives have had an experience with a therapist blaming them by using the codependency mode...

History of Codependency The term codependency (or co-addict) was a word made up by a bunch of addicts from Alcoholics Anonymous, founded ...

For those interested in what my current personal boundaries look like 💗. For How to Set Boundaries go HERE : Boundaries are very imp...

Are Consequences and Repentance Required for Worthiness?  LDS Mormon Quotes Why Are Consequences Helpful?  If Alma the you...

Pornography and the Law of Chastity  LDS Mormon Quotes   What is Pornography?   Definition of Pornography : "Pornog...

What The Church Says About Judging Others "Thou shalt not judge" is a common accusatory (and quite shaming) misconception I h...

CORRELATION BETWEEN VIDEO GAMES AND PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTION Watch this video on the science behind pornography addiction. Video games rew...

  Self EMDR Here's how to do POSITIVE self EMDR to help with trauma and help you love yourself. No therapist is needed because th...

Your Brain on Caffeine Im going to write about something that may be upsetting to some people. I'm going to talk about the dangers o...

I know this can be a touchy subject so as an addict, and my husband also being an addict, I'm going to explain the reasons why I per...

If Your Husband Struggles With a Sexual Addiction Should He Take a Polygraph? I love polygraphs. I believe all sex addicts should t...

Scientific and Personal Reasons of Why Masturbation Can Cause Sexual & Erectile Dysfunction. I started masturbating when I wa...

"Masturbation is sex with self. Sex with self is sex with someone other than your husband or wife to whom you are legally and lawf...

If you just found out about your husbands addiction and are going through the full disclosure, these questions may be helpful to ask.

Is There Something Wrong With You That Attracts Addicts?   I used to believe so, but I no longer do.  Hear me out.  If statistics sa...

 Must We Forgive Those Who Harm Us And Is Forgiveness The Same As Trust? LDS.org Quotes The quotes below have brought me comfort. At fi...

Pornography Statistics These are some more recent statistics from all around the world (and some old stats taken before smart phon...

What is Gaslighting?  Quotes & Resources 1. Oxford Dictionary states: "Gaslight - Manipulate (someone) by psychological ...

  Is it Your Responsibility to Have Sex With Your Husband?  Quotes From LDS Mormon Church Leaders Many wives struggle with feeling like ...

  Many people believe that using the term "sex addict" is detrimental, and should no longer be used when treating sex addict...