Alcohol, Drug & Sex Addict & Wife Of Sex Addict

I can't count the many times I've heard women say "I ignored the red flags", or "I painted the red flags green",...

 Who here wants a new name for codependency? Oh right, no one. "Prodependency" is another victim blaming term, made up by sex addi...

 The term "Trauma Bond" is just as victim blaming as codependency, reactive abuse, stockholm syndrome, etc, and just as dangerous ...

 I'm not against everything regarding learned helplessness. Martin Seligman's study is fascinating (disgusting), though I don't ...

The term "Stockholm Syndrome" is ALL CRAP. Hogwash. Nonsense. Absurd. Rubbish. Malarky. Hooey. Doo doo. Lies. Yet there are hundre...

 The Drama Triangle is another victim blaming term when applied to trauma victims.  According to the creator, Dr. Stephen Karpman, the Drama...

Reactive Abuse is incredibly victim blaming. We already have a correct name for this, it's called self defense. Why would we ever call i...

I will be doing a series of posts about some victim blaming terms that many people may not be aware of that are harming victims of abuse, li...

 "EVEN IF IT'S ALL COMPLETELY TRUE" Anyone else sick of sex addict men coming up with labels for traumatized women?  Let's...

(Yes. Cat memes make me happy)  S-Anon is victim blaming and codependency based, even if they don't use the word "codependency"...

  A recent poll suggests 93% of betrayed wives have had an experience with a therapist practicing the codependency model in the last fi...

History of Codependency The term codependency (or co-addict) was a word made up by a bunch of addicts from Alcoholics Anonymous, founded ...

What Causes Addiction?  I believe there is always a CAUSE of an addiction. I don't think it just magically happens to random peopl...

For those interested in what my current personal boundaries look like 💗. For How to Set Boundaries go HERE : Boundaries are very imp...

Are Consequences and Repentance Required for Worthiness?  LDS Mormon Quotes Why Are Consequences Helpful?  If Alma the you...

Pornography and the Law of Chastity  LDS Mormon Quotes   What is Pornography?   Definition of Pornography : "Pornog...

What The Church Says About Judging Others "Thou shalt not judge" is a common accusatory (and quite shaming) misconception I h...

CORRELATION BETWEEN VIDEO GAMES AND PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTION Watch this video on the science behind pornography addiction. Video games rew...

If it's been scientifically proven that Adverse Childhood Experiences (aka Trauma) can cause diseases and mental illness, then why can&#...

Your Brain on Caffeine Im going to write about something that may be upsetting to some people. I'm going to talk about the dangers o...

I know this can be a touchy subject so as an addict, and my husband also being an addict, I'm going to explain the reasons why I per...

If Your Husband Struggles With a Sexual Addiction Should He Take a Polygraph? I love polygraphs. I believe all sex addicts should t...

Scientific and Personal Reasons of Why Masturbation Can Cause Sexual & Erectile Dysfunction. I started masturbating when I wa...

"Masturbation is sex with self. Sex with self is sex with someone other than your husband or wife to whom you are legally and lawf...

If you just found out about your husbands addiction and are going through the full disclosure, these questions may be helpful to ask.

Is There Something Wrong With You That Attracts Addicts?   I used to believe so. And yes, this may or may not be possible with a small...

 Must We Forgive Those Who Harm Us And Is Forgiveness The Same As Trust? LDS.org Quotes The quotes below have brought me comfort. At fi...

Pornography Statistics These are some more recent statistics from all around the world (and some old stats taken before smart phon...

What is Gaslighting?  Quotes & Resources 1. Oxford Dictionary states: "Gaslight - Manipulate (someone) by psychological ...

  Is it Your Responsibility to Have Sex With Your Husband?  Quotes From LDS Mormon Church Leaders Many wives struggle with feeling like ...

  Many people believe that using the term "sex addict" is detrimental, and should no longer be used when treating sex addict...

To the innocent wives suffering Betrayal Trauma ❤ Is ALL anger bad? Should we always avoid anger at all costs? Why would Christ show ang...

Movie Content Reviews   Movie/ TV Imdb.com Movie http://www.kids-in-mind.com   Movie/ TV/ Books/ Games/ Music http://www.plugge...

  Make Your Computer Safer! Here is a list of ways to Opt-Out of many different types of "Interest Based Ads". I suggest optin...

  Is My Betrayal Trauma Actual PTSD? (****Attention: Before you automatically rule yourself out after reading Criteria A, read the def...

ADDICTION - 1. "Addiction is the continued repetition of a behavior/rewarding stimuli despite adverse consequences." 2. ...

Unconditional Love Requires Bounda ries Enabling is NOT Uncon d itional Love   "And know ye that ye shall be judges of this p...

What Is Recovery? Wanna know what the grande ol' mystery to Recovery is? The answer we all search for when figuring out if our husband...

Does your sexually addicted loved one have any of these ADHD symptoms?: Lots of anxiety Racing thoughts (mind won't shut off) ...

 How To Communicate "We have not passed that subtle line between childhood and adulthood until we move from the passive voice to the...

And It's Really Not What You Think... I felt I needed to write about this article going around, The Real Cause of Addiction, AND It...

First off, his behavior is not your fault. What? HIS BEHAVIOR IS NOT YOUR FAULT.

Don't hate me.  I'm gonna say it... I cant stand the 90 day program. 

"Do I need a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist?" I don't (don't hate me) believe a CSAT is necessary. Beneficial? Ma...

What Is Abuse I think many of us hear abuse and we instantly think it only means being physically beaten and that unless we are being...

What are affirmations? I'll explain in a way that helped me understand them (I used to think they were hippy BS haha). We...