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Saturday, May 2, 2015

Latter Day Saint: 90 Day Program Craziness


Don't hate me. 

I'm gonna say it...

I cant stand the 90 day program. 

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I am an Intimate Partner Violence victim advocate, a recovering sex addict, and wife of a sex addict. My passion is deconstructing victim blaming language, fighting against harmful sex addiction teachings, and helping victims of abuse.
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  • 1. "The Chalice and the Blade - History of patriarchy" by Riane Eisler
  • 2. "Worlds Oldest Prejudice : A Brief History of Misogyny" by Jack Holland
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  • 6. "Feminie Mystique" by Betty Friedan
  • 7. "Entitled" by Kate Manne (explains why entitlement is at the root of misogyny & patriarchy. And in my opinion also abuse)
  • 8. "The Woman They Could Not Silence" by Kate Moore

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Resources I Recommend

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  • #5 Dr. Barbara Steffens
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